Clinically Speaking
Licensed marriage and family therapists review reality dating shows
Licensed marriage and family therapists review reality dating shows
Episodes

Jun 2, 2025
Meet Your Hosts
Jun 2, 2025
Jun 2, 2025
12 min
Get to know us and hear a mini review of Love Island USA season 6!
Email us with questions and suggestions as we prepare to recap season 7; clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Jun 2, 2025
12 min

Jun 9, 2025
Mini: Learn the Lingo
Jun 9, 2025
Jun 9, 2025
7 min
Dive into commonly misused pop psychology terms before we start recapping season 7 of Love Island USA. We answer questions like:
What are boundaries, clinically speaking?
What is gaslighting, clinically speaking?
What is a narcissist, clinically speaking?
What are red flags, clinically speaking?
What is validation, clinically speaking?
And do you actually know the difference between thoughts, feelings, and actions?
Email us with questions and suggestions as we prepare to recap season 7; clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Credits
Editing by yours truly
Theme music by Connor Criswell; connorcriswell@gmail.com
References
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed.; DSM–5; American Psychiatric Association, 2013)
Merriam-Webster. (n.d.). Gaslighting definition & meaning. Merriam-Webster. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gaslighting
Resources
KC Davis
Susan David
Jun 9, 2025
7 min

Jun 26, 2025
Flooded... And Not Just Emotionally
Jun 26, 2025
Jun 26, 2025
21 min
Two new therapists enter the villa and toe the line between chatting with the girlies and clinical insight. We dive into episodes 1-14 of Love Island USA season 7 to breakdown the OG couples and recouplings while integrating the work of your therapists' favorite bombshell duo, the Gottmans.
Email us with questions and suggestions at clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod
Credits
Editing by yours truly
Theme music by Connor Criswell; connorcriswell@gmail.com
References
Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor.
Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.
Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.
Jun 26, 2025
21 min

Jul 9, 2025
Body-ody-ody Dysregulation
Jul 9, 2025
Jul 9, 2025
22 min
Two new therapists enter the villa to recap episodes 15-26 of Love Island USA season 7! We share our definition of a “girls’ girl," breakdown Nic and Cierra’s communication, and discuss the role of culture in Amaya Papaya’s couples. Plus squeal over NicOlandria in our new segment, Gay Thoughts/Straight Thoughts!
Email us with questions and suggestions at clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod
Credits
Editing by yours truly
Theme music by Connor Criswell; connorcriswell@gmail.com
WOC Clinicians on TikTok
@mindmattermantra
@thedrmonica
@anastasiabrokas_lmft
References
Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor.
Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.
Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.
Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: reconciling the erotic + the domestic. HarperCollins.
Jul 9, 2025
22 min

Aug 5, 2025
RIP to Resurrected: A NicOlandria Love Story
Aug 5, 2025
Aug 5, 2025
27 min
Licensed marriage and family therapists recap episodes 27-34 of Love Island USA season 7. We breakdown what we love about NicOlandria, discuss couple compatibility and family culture, vent about "Situationship Island," and finish up with Gay Thoughts/Straight Thoughts!
Email us with questions and suggestions at clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod
Credits
Editing by yours truly
Theme music by Connor Criswell; connorcriswell@gmail.com
References
Gottman, J. M., & Costanzo, P. (2012). Why marriages succeed or fail: And how you can make yours last. Tantor.
Gottman, John M.. The Marriage Clinic: A Scientifically Based Marital Therapy (Norton Professional Books (Hardcover)) (Function). Kindle Edition.
Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.
Aug 5, 2025
27 min

Oct 6, 2025
NicOlandria Nation
Oct 6, 2025
Oct 6, 2025
12 min
Licensed marriage and family therapists recap the finale and reunion of Love Island USA season 7. We chat about our final four couples, harmful communication patterns, and good apologies.
Email us with questions and suggestions at clinicallyspeakingpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @clinicallyspeakingpod
Credits
Editing by yours truly
Theme music by Connor Criswell; connorcriswell@gmail.com
References
Fraser, C. (2021, April 27). The Art of the Mindful Apology: Why ‘Sorry’ is Not Enough. Gottman. 2025, https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-art-of-the-mindful-apology-why-sorry-is-not-enough/
Peacock. (2025). Love Island USA.
The Gottman Institute. (2025, July 24). Red Flags vs Growth Areas: How to distinguish and navigate them. Gottman. 2025, https://www.gottman.com/blog/red-flags-vs-growth-areas-how-to-distinguish-and-navigate-them/?utm_campaign=Marriage%20Minute&utm_medium=email&_hsenc=p2ANqtz--IYpN9Wm3xZrwoeUNZpU4_LdncgHsAcA2HCdIaihCeR_Xrnn688U1oGqkOsxfAsJN62ARvXHyqNI7qvGECobOmAPO-hg&_hsmi=383144307&utm_content=382471926&utm_source=hs_email
Oct 6, 2025
12 min



